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Monday, August 08, 2011

Mean girls.


Real life mean girls. We all know a few.....

I was walking down the street with one of my very beautiful friends, who is one of the most internally beautiful, down to earth and loyal friends that I have. This girl yells out 'ewwwww' at my gorgeous friend. A girl that we have both known for years, who has always had a problem with my friend for no apparent reason. I asked her once 'why do you hate her' and she responded 'I just don't like her'. Fair enough, I thought. Sometimes personalities just clash and you just cant please everyone, but is it really necessary to yell out 'ewwww' at someone who has never done anything to you? 

Unfortunately there are dozens of these girls walking around and even as the years roll by, it seems they never really progress or mature. I remember being in grade 9 and being teased relentlessly - even to the point of a girl handing me a razor and telling me to kill myself because I was a waste of air. I thought, what is wrong with me? I try to be so nice and these girls just hate me and want me to die? 

Years later I realize that I am not the person who should be pitied, neither is my friend. What is going on in these girls heads that are making them act this way without even having a reason? What are they facing themselves? Are they acting out of spite or are they unfortunately just horrible people? Its really sad when you look deeper into these things and realize how unhappy and insecure they must be themselves and whats making them want to bring everyone down with them? I wonder if bitches have their expiry date where they turn themselves around or if they live this way forever? I sincerely hope one day that everyone will live in peace and just let each other live their own lives the way they want to live it.

What do you think?

15 comments:

  1. I know exactly what you're saying and I agree with you: They're just so insecure and jealous! Just don't care about them!

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  2. I totally agree with what you've said. It's hurendous how some girls are like this,it's hard to understand why? They obviously have their own issue's and insecurities.But you'd like to hope these girls will grow up and out of being such bitches?!

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  3. You're so incredibly right.
    I know because everyone teased me too. I hate them so much.

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  4. Let the haters hate, you know who you are, and mean girls have always derived from jealousy and pain. We want to follow you! We like your thoughts and ideas, if you want to follow us we're at
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  5. I've also been a victim of isolation and being ignored when I was in high school, it was a terrible period and I hated school, but never let thoes gals bring you down. They are mostly insecure themselves hence they wanted to gain control over others to make themselves feel better I guess...

    nice post :)
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    Erika
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  6. OMG, are you serious? There are so rude and the girl who threated you is crazy, or what? You sound like a really smart girl, you're so much better and smarter than them. Don't make them put you down, your're stronger :) xo

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  7. haters are just a bunch of jealous ppl~ ^^ be strong =D

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  8. its such a shame that some girls have to be so catty and jealous of other girls..

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  9. that kind of people are not normal and usually they end up with getting what they deserve, one way or another. hope your friend is ignoring this stupid person and not giving her any attention.

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  10. she actually just laughed and said 'like thats supposed to make me feel like shit or something' .... thank god she has a sense of humour...

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  11. It was proabbly because your friend was prettier than her. Christina Aguilera - Beautiful, thats what it's all about.

    Nadia xoxo

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  12. I complete agree with you. So sad and unnecessary of the girl to say what she has said. However, they can only help themselves :/

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  13. That is terrible. I am so sorry and completely agree with you. I don't understand why people act that way. I believe you get back what you give out (in most cases). So why waste time and energy putting others down? All it does is bring you down as well.

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